A TEACHERble Moment on The Next Chapter: High School to College

I’m not sure if you’re familiar with Sam Cooke, or if you were born by a river in a little tent, or if you’ve been running ever since —perhaps you participated in track and field; however one thing Sam Cooke said in his song perfectly captures this moment in your life, high school graduate:

It’s been a long
A long time coming,

And I know, from experience, that a change is definitely about to come.

Oh yes, it is.

Right now, you’re probably in Phase 1. The idea that you are about to graduate high school and walk across the stage, or your school’s football field, hasn’t fully settled in yet. You know you’re graduating, but the emotions haven’t quite hit you. In the days leading up to the big moment, those butterflies will start to flutter in your stomach.

Next, you’ll move on to Phase 2. On graduation day, you and your butterflies will wake up together. There might even be a forecast for rain because tears will fill the room. Your administrators, teachers, fellow students, friends, family, and most importantly, YOU will be proud of this achievement. Celebrate because your chariot to the college or university of your choice is waiting, and the marathon continues.

By now, you’ve taken the ACT and/or SAT, filled out your FAFSA, and applied for countless scholarships. (If you haven’t yet, make sure to do so because deadlines are important!)

Then comes Phase 3. Once you arrive home and settle in, you’ll start opening cards, gathering cash, and unwrapping gifts. Keep in mind that college will be expensive. Save your money for essential items you’ll need once you’re on campus.

And now here you are. This new phase—college. I’ve graduated from college twice and am currently in college as we speak. Through my experiences, I’ve learned so many things I didn’t know before and wish someone would have given me heads up.

As a high school graduate making this major transition, here are some tips and important things to keep in mind.

Tip 1: Stand firm against the “early class” phenomenon.

Throughout your academic career, you have consistently woken up early for school. However, upon entering college, you gain autonomy over your own schedule. Classes are available at various times, including morning, noon, afternoon, evening, and night. If you prefer to sleep later, then do as you will! Late birds get worms too. You can manage your coursework, take time to restock your dormitory or apartment, and attend classes at a later hour. Ultimately, regardless of which schedule you choose, you will still earn the same credits.

Tip 2: Limit the FUN in your refund.

If the funding you have received for school is not entirely allocated towards your tuition and expenses, you will receive a refund check via BankMobile. When this disbursement is deposited into your account, it will certainly create a sense of financial freedom. However, instead of spending this refund on trips or clothing, it is advisable you save the majority of it. There will be ongoing costs associated with books & materials, bills, and emergencies. Not to mention, you will have multiple semesters to come. Invest in yourself!

Tip 3: Socialize and network.

Meet new people and make quality friends! Do not focus on quantity. Be sure to become acquainted with those studying the same field as you. Befriending classmates helps you share ideas and support each other. Your school will host many events where you can socialize. Attend them. Get to know your neighbors, dorm advisor, and instructors. When office hours are posted, stop by and introduce yourself to your instructors. Ask a question. Valuable connections will open doors for you.

Tip 4: Take advantage of your campus.

Most colleges and universities offer a variety of amenities such as a gym, pool area, parks, postal services, transportation, bikes, restaurants, libraries, stores, gamerooms, and etc. Get out of your bed, visit around, and become acquainted with your surroundings. After all, this is your new home away from home. Most of everything you will need is provided on campus for you. If you don’t see it, don’t be afraid to ask.

Tip 5: Do not forget your student-ID.

Your student-ID is literally your key. Seriously. You will need it to access nearly everything on and off campus. Be sure to check around for local stores and restaurants and businesses that offer student discounts. If your area has a movie theater, they may offer a certain discounted day for tickets. HULU and Spotify offer student discounts as well. For a full list of services that offer student discounts, check out the link, https://shop.id.me/student .

Tip 6: Be sure you have your materials before classes start.

Most colleges and universities provide a list of required course materials. You can get these items at your campus bookstore or find them cheaper online or locally, especially books. Renting textbooks is often better than buying them. Some classes may also need you to buy your own scantrons, calculators, or other supplies. Consider your options before making a purchase. Make sure to get everything you need before classes start to avoid being ill-prepared.

Tip 7: If you cannot balance a full time job, then don’t.

Finding a full-time job while studying full-time can be a rewarding challenge. I embraced this opportunity and soon realized it was not the right fit for me. Fortunately, your refund checks can provide assistance with your expenses. If a full-time role isn’t your speed, a part-time job is a great alternative. Many campus positions are part-time, designed to fit into your class schedule and offer convenient access. Additionally, exploring work-study programs can be a fantastic option. If you’re located in an area with flexible job opportunities like UberEats, InstaCart, or DoorDash, these are employment options if you have a vehicle and car insurance.

Tip 8: Ensure you select an appropriate living space.

I always wanted a Hillman College experience, which is why I preferred living in a dormitory; however, do keep in mind some dormitories can feel like a different world.This is why your living space is important. Dorms are often the best choice since they’re close to classes and can be more affordable than apartments. Freshman dorms vary in quality; you might have a hotel-like experience or something more basic. Many colleges let you request a dorm change before you arrive. Aim for a room with a private bathroom, as community showers can be tedious and crowded. If you end up in a hall with shared showers, make sure to bring the essentials for your hygiene needs.

Getting an apartment might not be the best choice for a college freshman. Consider the commute and the difficulty of finding parking on campus. If you’re fortunate, your apartment complex may offer transportation to the campus. If you decide to get an apartment, make sure you have all the necessary appliances and your apartment keys.

Tip 9: Optimize the benefits of your meal plan.

Most college amenities are covered, either by aid or your family’s support. Campuses typically have cafeteria services that offer self-serve or buffet-style meals. Make sure to enjoy nutritious meals during breakfast, lunch, dinner, and late-night snacks. You can also buy bonus bucks with your meal plan for on-campus stores and restaurants. Don’t let your meal plan go unused.

Tip 10: Make the most of your college experience.

College life is often portrayed as glamorous in movies, showcasing fraternities and parties. While it’s important to consider these aspects, focus on making thoughtful decisions. College is not just about academics; it’s also about gaining life experiences. Remember to prioritize your goal of earning your degree, as getting into college can be difficult, but getting kicked out is often easier.

You did it, Grad! I recognize how hard you’ve worked, and as you start this next chapter in college, know that I’m rooting for you. Wishing you all the best! Until we meet again at your college graduation!

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6 responses to “A TEACHERble Moment on The Next Chapter: High School to College”

  1. Krishna Shiwarkar Avatar
    Krishna Shiwarkar

    Your heartfelt reflection beautifully captures the essence of transition and growth. 🌟 Embracing change, as Sam Cooke eloquently sang, is both a challenge and an opportunity. Your insights offer invaluable guidance for those stepping into new chapters of their lives. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and encouragement. 🙏🎓✨

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    1. Transition and growth is so important in this life and the next. It’s the very make-up of who we are, and we must own and embrace that. Thank you for your commentary towards my blog post. ❤️🙏🏾

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    jessicaminorteaches

    Love this thorough, yet concisely written post! It’s great advice for new (and returning) college students!!

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    1. Thank you so much my sweet sister! I appreciate your loving support, always!

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