A TEACHERble Moment on My Future

What are you most excited about for the future?

I am 26 years old. I do not have children, and I am not married. While I cannot discern God’s plan for this stage of my life, I can certainly confirm that these two chapters are what I’m most excited about concerning my future. I wish to become a mother, potentially of four children, and to be a devoted wife to my future husband.

Growing up as an only child, I was surrounded by cousins, yet once our playdates concluded, I found myself alone. I was generally reserved at school, but eventually, I began to emerge from my shell. My parents’ divorce at a young age introduced me to a load of instability, and my mother’s subsequent remarriage left me with unresolved feelings. I often reflect on the reasons my biological father abandoned us and the fact that I have not seen or spoken to him since I was 8, now at 26 years old. I think about what he looks like, as I have no memories or photographs to remind me. It is bewildering to think that he resides an hour away. While I am fortunate to have positive male role models in my life, including my stepfather, the foundation of my childhood deviates from the norm.

Moving forward, I aspire to provide my future children with the opportunity to experience both siblings and a cohesive family unit. I earnestly pray for my future family and hope that God fulfills these deep-seated desires within my heart.

I will begin my graduate studies in August, marking the final phase of my pursuit of a doctoral degree in education, specializing in curriculum and instruction. While I feel a sense of nervousness, I am also filled with excitement and anticipation. My future aspirations include teaching at a college or university, as well as contributing to the development of programs and resources that enhance the educational experiences of grade-level students. I recognize that education will play a significant role in my future, driven not by financial incentives, but by my genuine passion for the field and my commitment to working with other educators and students.

So here’s to the future.

Here’s to me being “Mom”.

Here’s to me being “Wife”.

Here’s to me being “Dr. Gray”.



12 responses to “A TEACHERble Moment on My Future”

  1. and not a jethro tull song

    but really

    you re in your prime

    enjoy!

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    1. Much appreciated 🙏🏾✨!

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  2. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    God knows your heart and the desires within it. Keep trusting Him…His timing is perfect. Praying Blessings over your journey. 🙏

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    1. Thank you for the confirmation! I wish the same mighty blessings to you as well!🙏🏾✨

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  3. Congratulations on your initiation into the world of academia. I’m 23 years old and also awaiting my Master’s degree results and fearing the next step(in India, you have to go through a lousy entrance test for research/PhD/Professorship, which is hardly relevant to the three opportunities mentioned).

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    1. Thank you so much!☺️
      I’m so sorry you have to deal with difficult issues surrounding the entrance test, but I have faith things are going to go exceptionally well for you through this process!
      Wishing you all the best and sending blessings and support your way!
      You can do all things! ✨🙏🏾❤️

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  4. Teachable moments, one’s heart and soul in pursuit of knowledge, understanding life will be its classroom, teaching you perseverance! Blessings!

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    1. Such beautiful words! They are much appreciated! Thank you for your kindness, and blessings to you!✨

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  5. Keep trying if you want it . Wishing you al the best and success in what you seek sincerely 😁❤️🙌🏽

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  6. [ Teachers ]

    (Being a response to a post on how teachers are looked down upon in Nigeria)

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    I was impressed with her decision. Many parents would have forced her to do one of the more prominent professional courses.

    Many of us are only living our parents’ dreams:

    My son is a doctor, my daughter is an accountant, my nephew is a lawyer, my niece is an engineer, my grandson is a surveyor, my granddaughter is a pilot, etc . . .

    Yet all the youngman ever dreams of and aspires to be is an artist, same with your ever smiling lady whose potentials points to her being a successful actress, while her Mum says that’ll be over my dead body, not in my lifetime would my own child be such . . .

    Many young ones eventually grow up unfulfilled, living a sad, sorrowful life – Unchallenged and uninspired.

    Sad !

    There is a friend’s brother in law who has his two children ‘forcefully’ studying medicine, where they were both inclined towards accounting and economics.

    I heard him and his siblings are determined to make all their children medical doctors.

    What a life ?

    This ‘wish’ of theirs had started with the kids in Ukraine at first, but with the breakout of the Russian-Ukranian War, both starting allover in Yugoslavia.

    Poor kids !

    My good friend’s big sister also made sure her last child and only son studied medicine. The poor boy struggled for 12 years at UCH to achieve their desire and dropped the certificate thereafter.

    He’s a marketing director where he works many years later. Lol.

    For anyone whose ultimate goal is becoming a teacher by all means necessary – I salute their courage and optimism in striving to and eventually becoming one against all odds.

    Truly, we all need to have a rethink and treat education with some dignity. Afterall, they say education is the bedrock of development.

    Hope our administrators at all levels will also adequately fund education and reward teachers appropriately – About time we stop the rubbish:

    ‘A teacher’s reward is in heaven . . . ‘

    The false narrative that people in education courses are people with low I.Q should stop forthwith.

    Why should the best teacher of the year not be receiving $100,000 – Ati be be lo (and so on and so forth) like the reward doled out to our female football team, the Super Falcons and the female basketball team, the D’Tigress for both lifting African titles and getting $100,000 each ?

    A teacher is deserving of no less such a reward.

    @ O’Shine Original . . .

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    1. My mother is a supervisor in the poultry industry, and my father works in landscaping. Both graduated high school, but neither attended college. I took a path of my own, and I’m happy to have done so. I’m in a field I absolutely love. Teaching is my passion, and it’s rooted in my purpose here on Earth. Education has grown so fragile; it’s been put on the back burner with a future of uncertainty. I, along with so many educators, will continue to show up everyday, work to improve, and shape our children. I pray things get better globally in the profession. Thank you for sharing, and thank you for standing with teachers, truly. God bless you always!❤️❤️

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